Variety is the Spice of Life. Or is it?

I eat the same food everyday.

And every day, I enjoy at least one “bite gasm.”

That’s when the flavors and textures and temperature are all so perfect, I just close my eyes and moan to savor the sensory extravaganza of my favorite foods.

Yes I enjoy going to new restaurants and trying new foods, or my favorite food prepared in different ways.

However, when I cook, I make what I love, the way I love it, and groove on that with great bliss.

When it comes to food, variety is not the spice of life for me.

I like what I like, how I like it, and will choose that over other options.

Every time.

So this got me thinking about sex.

They say variety is the spice of life in the bedroom.

Do you agree?

This can apply a few ways.

First, variety with your partner in ways that you please each other and enjoy sexcapades and adventures together—that can spice things up for you as a couple.

Another way to consider this idea is that you need the variety of multiple sex partners to feel fulfilled, satisfied and excited.

Which describes you?

Well, it’s really fun to enjoy a variety of new and longstanding lovers, but what if you know exactly what you like and how you like it, and there’s the one person who delivers it.

Every time.

Here’s another idea:

When you taste your favorite food at a restaurant and it’s good, maybe even great, but it just doesn’t measure up to the BEST you’ve had, like when you prepare it yourself, it makes you appreciate even more the next time you have it just the way you love it.

Same with lovers.

When you’re with someone else who might be good, maybe even great, but just doesn’t measure up to the BEST you’ve had, t makes you appreciate even more the next time you have it just the way you love it.

Fascinating, right?

Well, I think so. In fact, my fascinating with topics like this inspired The Goddess Power Show with Elizabeth Ann Atkins, my podcast exploring taboo topics that help us all live bigger, better and bolder, to manifest our hearts’ wildest desires.

I’d love to hear your opinion!